Maybe, I am just not as skilled in the "art's of the manly ways," or I am just in the section of my life where things are just as sweet as they can be (in my social life, opposit sex life), I do not know for sure? Yet, I do know (as Don Johnson says, in "Harley Davidson and the Marlboro man"), "The right right woman can make you, and the WRONG woman can BREAK you!"
I do not know how many men about there realize that women, as different as they are from men, are still "people, humans, have problems, dreams, want the truth, and are generally the same,"yet they are also completely different in a handful of ways." If they were not, then men and women would NEVER have any problems. Right? Everyone would just be the same and they would get along.
I do not know how many men about there realize that women, as different as they are from men, are still "people, humans, have problems, dreams, want the truth, and are generally the same,"yet they are also completely different in a handful of ways." If they were not, then men and women would NEVER have any problems. Right? Everyone would just be the same and they would get along.
However, there are those few men, few women, who just want to be loved and as they say on the movie, "Moulin Rouge", "The greatest thing in the world, is to be loved, and to loved truly in return." (paraphrasing, as I think the last part, may be just off). Those people, are far and few between, as a rule. Therefore, how hard is it for two people to find each other, date (starting those dates, with 100% honesty, not "making either party better/worse than they are, as people, past, present, or future), have enough time to invest (with work, social life, and what life has to offer) in a chance, date long enough to actually have feelings, and then "truly fall in love." I believe that all people truly want to fall in love, but it is not the easiest thing to do. It takes patience, trust, and then the other person has to have the same. It is almost a better shot for a regular person, to "splice DNA," then to actually find a person who is their "soul-mate," or that one special person, who is to be by your side for the next fifty to sixty years.
Then, when a person is not expecting, not looking, and is just being themselves. Like a lightening bolt, from a powder blue sky, two people meet and they are honest and hit it off from the beginning. When it happens, there isn't any other feeling like it, in the whole world. The start is with honesty and the chit-chat is out of the picture, but "real topics" take it's place (no more talk about the whether, how a team is doing, or the regular garbage most people start out with). Then, with honesty in the fulcrum of the lever of love, there is nothing that cannot be accomplished, as everything from then on is real talk. As time goes on, there is nothing that those two people can't handle, because there is nothing stronger than the truth.
Of course, this takes two people who are willing to go that route, making the truth the biggest thing in their relationship. However, when "TRUTH" is the biggest pillar in the relationship and stays that way, there is nothing better. As, I know from personal experience, there is not any feeling in the world in being able to trust the lady, in every single facet of my life. Though, it took very hard work, many hours of talking, chatting, and emails, in the end, the feeling of having that, is not worth any trade in the world. KNOWING, as long as trust (a blessing from God, honesty and trust, "In my opinion") stays that strong of a pillar in our relationship, there is no more dating, no more wondering, and it allows for peace to be in our relationship. Two people bound, happy, in love, and for eternity being together. In the end, I just do not see anything, more special and important, than having that.
Peace, MD http://www.TheThoughtSpigot.Com
