There have been more theories and rants on Elliott Spitzer, his actions, and what is to become of him (both professionally and personally), but every television show, radio personality, and print media outlet have all missed the boat. Elliot Spitzer is just another, in a long line of men, who are full of entitlement and narcissism. John F. Kennedy, Bill Clinton, Wade Boggs (former baseball player), Jimmy Swaggert, and the list of the men of hubris and narcissism continues, daily. Yet, the "big name people" capturing the lens and the media ink, are just a fraction of men who are abandoning, taking advantage, and perpetuating a huge problem, with the nation wide abuse of women. When the "news story" is over, women and kids are always the ones crushed and damaged for life. Yet, they are covered, treated, and discussed the least, in almost all episodes (except for a little bit of pitty, in the last part of any story). It is not the narcissist and those who were caught, rather the wives, living children, the actual prostitutes (who were thrust into the sex life and trade, usually by a man/men in their pasts), and the very least (yet possibly the most impacted), the unborn children of the $4 billion American sex trade industry.
For every Spitzer, Clinton, Boggs, or Hiedi Fliess, there are tens of thousands, of women who are being taken advantage of daily. These are only the women in the public eye, or are "outed," in the process of the men who got caught. Maybe, one percent of all public figures actually get caught, are drug thru the mud (by the press, who makes huge dollars, at the expense of everyone involved), and publicly crucified. However, there is a $4 billion business in the United States, in pornography, prostitution, and Internet trysts, escorts, being in the sex industry. In a $4 billion enterprise, in the United States alone, how many women are actually taken, raped, and/or personally damaged, forever, by men having mental and/or physical power over them, in some way? The highest rated cable news show, The O'Reilly Factor and "The No Spin Zone, with Bill O'Reilly," on talk radio, there was only talk of Elliot Spitzer and speculation of "why" he risked so much, on the "Emperor's Club" (the prostitution hub). There was not any mention of how the majority, roughly 83% of all women (different studies, give different statistics) in the sex industry have been raped, come from a broken home, or have endured physical/emotional abuse of some kind (91% of those, by men). Of course, Governor Elliott Spitzer spending $80,000 is a huge story, and a ratings boon. When the political aftermath is over, where will that leave the real topic, and all of the women in the sex trade across America? Bill O'Reilly is not going to be championing a fight for the sex trade worker, the twenty year old victim forced into selling herself, delving into a hard look at the facts, because the looking glass will be pointed right back at him. Being a former sex scandal "aficionado" himself, the "Who's Looking Out For You" author, is going to skim the top of the Spitzer news. Then, after the purpose, of his ratings has peaked, he will duck back into the role of "people's champion," after not touching the problem, behind the problem.
It will take a complete effort, by MEN, to bring women out of the despair, shadows, and hell of the sex trade, because men are the cause of the problem. The problem crosses race and crede, but men are the predominate cause. When people are asking, where are the John Wayne's, Ronald Reagan's, and General Patton's of our generation?" There is a deafening silence, from men leading for right reasons and crusading for women to be put on pedestals (not put under the podium). Some of the pundits, on major news channels, beckoned for legalizing prostitution. Is that the solution, of today's voices, to make the problem legal? Yet another example, of hubris in the media and with elites. A blatant sense of entitlism and narcissism, from the people who think they can buy there way in any door and out of any problem.
Sickness of the heart, soul, and bodies of women, in the United States, starts with symptoms that blossom into a full blown epidemic, in a handful of years. Young girls, in preteens abused and teen pregnancy, unwed mother's raising kids without a father figures (making their girls easy prey for perverts, narcissists and sadists), those who are taken advantage of mentally and physically (by the men who are supposed to be the "father figures"), and finally young ladies who are not diagnosed correctly, with mental illnesses are just a fraction of the women ending up in the sex trade. Women looking to be loved and treated well by men, do not always have the coping skills and overall techniques to accomplish loving relationships, thru past failures of male role models. This is the story of record now, with the Elliott Spitzer case front and center, the women behind the "Spitzers" of the world, in the shadows. If there is no light shown on those women, who are deep into a $4 billion industry (being sold like cattle at auction), then will anyone ever see them, or is should they feel like their is any hope?
Narcissists and people of shallow ethical values will always prey on the weak. It takes people of strong character, moral fiber, and overall someone to give a voice to the plight of the weak and those led astray. Without a champion, to spearhead the real problems, not just the "headlines of a problem" (like Spitzer), then the bar will not stay the same. The moral and ethical bar, for those who need a champion, will be moved lower and lower, by those who are steering America down a slope that has no end.
America, on a downward spiral, in ethics, morality, and an overall lack of sense, because of the "secular progressive agenda." In racial politics, there was a time for the civil rights movement, and things have gradually become better, for different racial components and people in America. This problem transcends race, because women come in all races, and are over half of the American population. It is time for a massive outreach, a hammering legislative process (by the government), and finally for men champions to step forward and bring this huge problem to the forefront. Every woman in America is special, is a person who has needs and needs a person to depend on, and finally women bring forth life. These reasons alone, show it is time for all the people of the United States to take a stand against "the underground women factory of sex, betrayal, and exploitation," but MEN have to lead the way.
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Does this sound like the majority of men, elitists, people in power, and in the public eye today? Perhaps, it sounds like you? It is never to late to change, take a stand, and try to make America the best country it can possibly be, for everyone, not just yourself.NINE CHARACTERISTICS OF A NARCISSIST, AS PER, THE WIKOPEDIA DICTIONARY:
1. "to be devoid of empathy"
2. "The term narcissism means love of oneself, and refers to the set of character traits concerned with self-admiration, self-centeredness and self-regard."
3. "The narcissist is inclined to lie or deceive."
4. "The narcissist often criticizes others, sometimes to the extent of damaging their reputation."
5. "The narcissist often behaves very differently in public situations from private situations (i.e. his or her public persona is very different from his or her private persona).The public persona is typically very charming (perhaps designed to generate admiration) while the private persona can appear to be quite aggressive. Most people only witness the public persona and do not see the private persona, and therefore have a very distorted perception of the narcissist's true character."
6. "A narcissist is generally an adult; between a half and three-quarters of narcissists are men, the rest being women."
7. "While a narcissist might criticize others the narcissist strongly dislikes to be criticized by others."
8. "While a narcissist might interrupt others in conversation the narcissist strongly dislikes to be interrupted by others."
9. "A narcissist feels entitled to special privileges."
For every Spitzer, Clinton, Boggs, or Hiedi Fliess, there are tens of thousands, of women who are being taken advantage of daily. These are only the women in the public eye, or are "outed," in the process of the men who got caught. Maybe, one percent of all public figures actually get caught, are drug thru the mud (by the press, who makes huge dollars, at the expense of everyone involved), and publicly crucified. However, there is a $4 billion business in the United States, in pornography, prostitution, and Internet trysts, escorts, being in the sex industry. In a $4 billion enterprise, in the United States alone, how many women are actually taken, raped, and/or personally damaged, forever, by men having mental and/or physical power over them, in some way? The highest rated cable news show, The O'Reilly Factor and "The No Spin Zone, with Bill O'Reilly," on talk radio, there was only talk of Elliot Spitzer and speculation of "why" he risked so much, on the "Emperor's Club" (the prostitution hub). There was not any mention of how the majority, roughly 83% of all women (different studies, give different statistics) in the sex industry have been raped, come from a broken home, or have endured physical/emotional abuse of some kind (91% of those, by men). Of course, Governor Elliott Spitzer spending $80,000 is a huge story, and a ratings boon. When the political aftermath is over, where will that leave the real topic, and all of the women in the sex trade across America? Bill O'Reilly is not going to be championing a fight for the sex trade worker, the twenty year old victim forced into selling herself, delving into a hard look at the facts, because the looking glass will be pointed right back at him. Being a former sex scandal "aficionado" himself, the "Who's Looking Out For You" author, is going to skim the top of the Spitzer news. Then, after the purpose, of his ratings has peaked, he will duck back into the role of "people's champion," after not touching the problem, behind the problem.
It will take a complete effort, by MEN, to bring women out of the despair, shadows, and hell of the sex trade, because men are the cause of the problem. The problem crosses race and crede, but men are the predominate cause. When people are asking, where are the John Wayne's, Ronald Reagan's, and General Patton's of our generation?" There is a deafening silence, from men leading for right reasons and crusading for women to be put on pedestals (not put under the podium). Some of the pundits, on major news channels, beckoned for legalizing prostitution. Is that the solution, of today's voices, to make the problem legal? Yet another example, of hubris in the media and with elites. A blatant sense of entitlism and narcissism, from the people who think they can buy there way in any door and out of any problem.
Sickness of the heart, soul, and bodies of women, in the United States, starts with symptoms that blossom into a full blown epidemic, in a handful of years. Young girls, in preteens abused and teen pregnancy, unwed mother's raising kids without a father figures (making their girls easy prey for perverts, narcissists and sadists), those who are taken advantage of mentally and physically (by the men who are supposed to be the "father figures"), and finally young ladies who are not diagnosed correctly, with mental illnesses are just a fraction of the women ending up in the sex trade. Women looking to be loved and treated well by men, do not always have the coping skills and overall techniques to accomplish loving relationships, thru past failures of male role models. This is the story of record now, with the Elliott Spitzer case front and center, the women behind the "Spitzers" of the world, in the shadows. If there is no light shown on those women, who are deep into a $4 billion industry (being sold like cattle at auction), then will anyone ever see them, or is should they feel like their is any hope?
Narcissists and people of shallow ethical values will always prey on the weak. It takes people of strong character, moral fiber, and overall someone to give a voice to the plight of the weak and those led astray. Without a champion, to spearhead the real problems, not just the "headlines of a problem" (like Spitzer), then the bar will not stay the same. The moral and ethical bar, for those who need a champion, will be moved lower and lower, by those who are steering America down a slope that has no end.
America, on a downward spiral, in ethics, morality, and an overall lack of sense, because of the "secular progressive agenda." In racial politics, there was a time for the civil rights movement, and things have gradually become better, for different racial components and people in America. This problem transcends race, because women come in all races, and are over half of the American population. It is time for a massive outreach, a hammering legislative process (by the government), and finally for men champions to step forward and bring this huge problem to the forefront. Every woman in America is special, is a person who has needs and needs a person to depend on, and finally women bring forth life. These reasons alone, show it is time for all the people of the United States to take a stand against "the underground women factory of sex, betrayal, and exploitation," but MEN have to lead the way.
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Does this sound like the majority of men, elitists, people in power, and in the public eye today? Perhaps, it sounds like you? It is never to late to change, take a stand, and try to make America the best country it can possibly be, for everyone, not just yourself.NINE CHARACTERISTICS OF A NARCISSIST, AS PER, THE WIKOPEDIA DICTIONARY:
1. "to be devoid of empathy"
2. "The term narcissism means love of oneself, and refers to the set of character traits concerned with self-admiration, self-centeredness and self-regard."
3. "The narcissist is inclined to lie or deceive."
4. "The narcissist often criticizes others, sometimes to the extent of damaging their reputation."
5. "The narcissist often behaves very differently in public situations from private situations (i.e. his or her public persona is very different from his or her private persona).The public persona is typically very charming (perhaps designed to generate admiration) while the private persona can appear to be quite aggressive. Most people only witness the public persona and do not see the private persona, and therefore have a very distorted perception of the narcissist's true character."
6. "A narcissist is generally an adult; between a half and three-quarters of narcissists are men, the rest being women."
7. "While a narcissist might criticize others the narcissist strongly dislikes to be criticized by others."
8. "While a narcissist might interrupt others in conversation the narcissist strongly dislikes to be interrupted by others."
9. "A narcissist feels entitled to special privileges."
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